Is your significant other Cheating? Lying? Abusive?

This is the podcast for you! Also recommend reading Tracey’s book and blog.

Tracey’s wisdom helped save me and my kids lives. Literally! She has an enlightening and refreshing take on being a chump that helps us chumps to embrace the reality that has been dumped on us and empower us to take our lives back. This includes not just dealing with the cheating abusive significant other but dealing with therapist who insist that you are “part of the problem” when they know good and well that no one but the cheating/abusive spouse is the only one that can control their own actions, Switzerland friends/family, flying monkeys, narcissistic and highly toxic people, how to coparent with a highly toxic spouse, etc.

I’m 10yrs out of an abusive marriage and 5yrs free from highly toxic people in all areas of my life. (The first 5yrs post divorce were spent jumping through hoops with people described above for the “good of the children” as the court and toxic therapist liked to put it. Let me be very clear, it wasn’t for the good of my children but for the good of their pocket books as I was constantly wrapped in judicial battles with my ex and they reaped the benefit of continuing the chaos instead of recognizing his abuse and forcing boundaries with him). Life is good now on the other side after I took Tracey’s advice.