Excellent, so helpful. I am six years out from D Day. He had been leading a double life for thirteen years. I threw him out asap. I was given Leave a Cheater gain a life by Tracy Schorn and l never looked back. I read her blog every day and the comments people added. It gave me the courage and strength to deal with an eighteen month divorce. Our two adult children were so appalled at his capability to deceive and lack of empathy that the they cut him off and changed their surname to my maiden name.
We were in shock. It was brutally hard in the early years. But l realised his treatment of me for years was manipulative and he was gaslighting me. I made myself smaller and tried to disappear.
Six years later l am happier than l have been in years. I went to counselling and worked on my own happiness and needs.
I ve just remarried. He is a widower, a wonderful family man and l now no a partner s love for the first time in my life. It’s nothing like the marriage to a covert narcissist.
I saw a second chance at life and grabbed it. I turned an awful situation to my advantage. You can do it , with the right support. They are not worthy of you.
Dec. 6, 2023 by Phee Lavine on This Website